Loneliness is mental pain, but staying
happy at this time is fabulous. Don’t overburden by this term “Loneliness”. It
can bring a lot of perks and happiness for you if you think wisely. Here your
power to change the situation comes. This is the best time to explore yourself and direct
your energy positively. Some people may feel bad to stay alone. If you see the
cycle of life, everyone has come along and has to go alone. No one is going to be accompanying you after your death. It may sound foolish to some people, but this
is a true fact about life. Don’t think you are alone. Some people may think its
depressing state of being alone, but I would call it exploring the state. Then why not explore
yourself? This state of loneliness
can be productive for you. Just you need to channelize your energy.
How to dissolve this feeling of loneliness?
How to overcome this hurdle?
You are thinking that you
are alone, but actually, you are very close to yourself. This is the best time to create
yourself. You can hear your inner
voice and can feel your emotions. Learn from your experience and connect with
yourself first. This is creating time for you.
2. Let past fly
Everyone has a past and commits a mistake in the past. Don’t become a judge for others and don’t let others judge you. You are a different person now and even if your choices were wrong in the past.
Now you have the power of changing yourself. Just heal yourself during the
period of loneliness. Introspect, learn, and grow is the mantra of living a
happy life. Live in present.
3. Disconnect yourself from
social media
Social media gives you temporary pleasure. Connecting
to media may hide all your emotions momentarily. But it takes you away from
your inner core. Don't get the influence of media. Have a balance in your life. I
agree it's important to connect with technology, but balance is very important. Be kind to yourself. If you can’t stay without
electronic media it means you are addicted to them. Sit calm and try to find
out “real you”. Social Media is a virtual world.
4. Connect with real-world of
nature
Aligning with mother nature is the best medicine for your soul. Enjoy and spend some time in the lap of nature and feel your presence. Amalgamation with Nature would heal all
your pains, negative thoughts and will refresh your mind, body, and soul. Connecting to nature
will soothe you and inspire you from inside.
5. Connect with people
We are social animals, connect with the people instead
of the electronic world. Nature and we are part of this vast Universe. Spend
time with your family and friends. They are part of your life. Connecting with
people makes you a more sensible and active person.
6. Discover your new hobby
This is the correct time when you can adopt new habits
and work on your hobbies. Practice regularly your new habit. Take a break and
think about what you have been trying to include in your routine. Incorporate new rituals into your daily schedule and take a leap to refine your life.
7. Let your negative attitude melt
Your mental well being is
connected to your thoughts. Don’t make a loop of negative attitude. Change your
perspective and let the negative thoughts melt.
8. Engage yourself with your
passion
Make
your own vision board, including personal, professional, social, and spiritual commitments. This is a central
part of your life. Make, erase, and modify with time. Focus on yourself. This will
motivate you to work on your agendas.
Maintain
the journal that would help you find your thought patterns and guide you to
take better decisions.
9. Energize yourself with
positive vibes
Don’t think you are alone, it sounds
negative. Make a positive aura around you by doing meditations, reading books, practice
yoga, by connecting with positive people. You have a lot of energy inside you, give
it direction and you will explore a fantastic person in you.
Conclusion
This lonely time can deteriorate or uplift you, but CHOICE IS YOURS. Be in command and keep learning from mother nature. Be happy
where you are today and change the situation with your positive efforts. It will
definitely provide you a rich experience. Keep learning new things and practice it regularly.
- Kamini Khatak
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DeleteBeautifully summarized the real essence of life.. I have my take away from this.. Thanks Kamini.. God bless!
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